I will say I am about at a breaking point with one of my children. He is so cute and adorable when he smiles at you, and he loves to cuddle and give kisses. But........
He is giving a run on having the best temper (I should probably say at this point in time he wins). I think he gets frustrated because he can not communicate what he wants. Really sometimes, even though he is not communicating with words, I know what he wants and when I say no, get the same reaction... These reactions range from knocking over a chair, to throwing a toy, to throwing another toy, hitting something or ripping up the doormat and throwing it in another room. The lip tucks in and the cheeks poke out. Screaming is also common.
It takes all that I have to be rational in these moments, and I have to say I don't think I keep it all together that well, under these conditions. I think the hardest part so far of parenting is trying to stay rational when everyone around you is acting irrational.
Today I met with the county health services department for an intake appointment. No, I am not giving anyone up for adoption. Rather, requesting speech evaluation services for the twins. Hopefully this will get us on track. It seemed to get us going with Charlie when he was about the same age.
Pray for us. We all want to make it out of the terrible 2's alive.